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The father's role in the family
We live in a society where the majority
of children grow up without the physical presence of their father. And even
when they are present in their families, many choose not to live permanently in
their homes. Situations where the mother lives somewhere with the children and
the father lives and works elsewhere are very common. But these situations are
a problem: they help to reduce the role of the father to just be the provider.
And being a father is so much more than that!
Posted on 2016-07-15 | The Nouvellist
Village Health -
Too many have grown up without ever
knowing their father or knowing him by name. At home, it is common to hear men
proudly declare that they have so many children that they can not count them.
We often hear women saying, some with regret, others with a touch of pride
Some roles can be interchangeable. For
example, paying school fees, taking them to school, demanding discipline,
styling, feeding, etc. But there are functions of the father that even a
well-intentioned mother can never fulfill. The presence of the father in the
life of a child can break the natural fusion that exists between a child and
his mother. The father is the one who will impose limits on children just by
his presence.
The father physically present and active
in his family provides emotional security to the mother and children. It makes
it easier for children to learn about self-control and helps them to control
their aggression, when, of course, they did this work on themselves. The father
introduces the child to the rules of society, in order to allow him to
integrate. It allows the child to form an identity outside of his relationship
with his mother. It is not by chance that father's absence is cited as one of
the causes of juvenile delinquency. Teenagers who have become delinquents have
this commonality among them: they believe that they have all the rights and
that they owe everything to them. They are young people who have not learned their
limits.
Studies have also shown that adults who
have had their father very involved in their life during childhood are able to
take greater risks outward, to go further in their careers for example. Other
studies indicate that the father's presence with children delays the first
sexual intercourse and decreases the risk of drug or alcohol use.
In addition to the father's traditional
role of providing for financial needs, protecting, securing, reassuring,
disciplining and structuring the family, it is important that men position
themselves better in the lives of their children. Their task is not just to
"help the mother", but to assume their role as true father by sharing
responsibility for the education of children at all levels. The concept of
"rendering service to the mother" implies an alarming disempowerment
of the father. A man is not in the life of his child to "help the
mother". A father must develop a full relationship with his child. He
fulfills a unique role. It ensures a balance. This role is his responsibility.
It
is up to each man to choose to be more than the father of his children. It is
up to each father to define how he will get involved in the life of his
children. Whether both parents live in a couple or on their own, children grow
up better when their parents respect each other and are both involved in their
lives. The presence of both parents reassures and ensures a better balance to
the children. It helps them to have a full life and a better balanced
education. In view of what is happening in the world today, it is becoming much
more urgent for parents to consider child rearing as a common project.
It is these assumed roles and this
balance that will enable these children to flourish, to become constructive
citizens and ready to become involved in improving their society. They will
become balanced adults with a positive outlook on life and their role as
humans.
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