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The child has always been a lust for parents, be it for the sake of the family, or for their own good. Yet we notice a bidding and a freedom "almost total", which can exceed the parents in the education they give. One may wonder then: how did his situation go from the obedient child to the tyrant child?

The place of the child in the family has changed profoundly in recent decades. Indeed, formerly severity and authority was the mark for a good education. Part of his life, even "brutal" in his childhood, the child has long been compared to an adult, considered as an "unfinished being", and where grown-ups played the role of "guide" and " mentor ". If the parents wanted the happiness of their offspring, to their family and society, they then took charge of preparing them with taking unavoidable requirements and constraints. Such as: "Life was God's, work and obedience of parents. According to a history teacher.

Unfortunately, by this method, the child passed for a kind of servant, performing chores and responding to the orders of his strict parents. He had no word to say. If he did, a physical relationship would have calmed the situation, for adults in any case. Too small and too submissive to express himself, the child happened to be "like a slave" for his guardians. At the time, the laws did not prohibit parents from using violence, more or less strong, against their "kid".

Until, later, we start talking about "children's rights", especially about abuse. A voice is raised even to defend the "cause of the children". A certain Françoise Dolto answered every day the questions of parents, about their own children, on France-Inter from 1976 to 1978. She said: "The child is not a small domestic animal, which must be trained, but a real person. He is a being of language to whom nothing should be concealed from his truths which concern him, a being of desire and intelligence. His parents must support him to find his place in the family and in society. ".

Thanks to this new understanding, two generations later, the place of the child has completely changed. He is no longer the "servant" or the "submissive" but an active being in the course of family life. In addition, he becomes more and more "actor" of his existence, even "subject", while the "small choices" of it were previously reserved for parents. Today, considered a person in its own right, we fully accept his point of view. In addition, in some family problem, he can intervene and give his opinion. Whereas in the past, there was almost no speech left. These various actions may even affect his own education.

Thanks to Dolto, the contemporary conception of childhood has changed particularly. The role of parents have also evolved. They are now "protectors" rather than guides even though the notion of "lived experience" remains. Thus, caught up in the discourse of the right of the child, parents are more and more embarrassed to allow themselves to exercise the violence, even slight and necessary. The place of affection for the child has also changed. Indeed, he is much closer to his parents, unlike thirty years ago, by the fact that they are looking to "really want" their happiness. A completely different kind of happiness, such as: no frustration, no constraints ... They become overinvestigated, hyper protected, sometimes everything becomes excessive. It is filled in different ways, to somehow "buy" at his expense, whether emotionally or materially. At present, he has access to a freedom forbidden a few decades ago, and sometimes even "too much" protected by his peers where the choice was impossible.