موضوع عن الاب
بالانجليزي
عبارات عن الاب بالانجليزي
جمل عن الاب بالانجليزي
تعبير عن الاب بالانجليزي بسيط
تعبير عن قدوتي في الحياة بالانجليزي
تعبير عن الوالدين بالانجليزي مترجم
رسالة الى الاب بالانجليزي
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A
father weaves with his daughter, from birth, unique links. It is thanks to this
absolute and ideal love that it opens to the world and is built little by
little.
Father
and daughter relationship
He
is "his darling little darling adored", she is his "marvel of
wonders". He covers her with her eyes, she covers him with kisses. Between
Pierre and his daughter Valentine, 5 years and a half, it is, everyday, love
tinged with seduction. And for a long time. Even if the girl came back from
school last week, loudly proclaiming that she had a lover in the person of
Alexis, her classmate. First pinch in the heart for the dad slightly turned
upside down by this revelation ...
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Fathers closer to their children
Not
so long ago, daddies were confined to the role of bastard, authoritarian and
generally distant fathers. Yesterday absent, today almost suggestible, they
have become closer to their children emotionally. It can not be repeated
enough, it is also the father that depends the balance of men and women of
tomorrow: it is as important for his children as the mother! Why ? Because
intervening between the mother and her toddler - by her physical presence but
also by the place it occupies in the head of her companion -, it allows the
baby to understand that he has a distinct identity, distinct from the one who
wore it. He helps her position herself sexually, stimulates him by pushing him
outward (while the mother closes her arms over him in a protective gesture),
gives him a sense of security ("My daddy, it's the most strong! ":
boys and girls have shining eyes when they say that), embody the law and set
benchmarks and limits.
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The ideal of the other sex
But
unlike the boy, for whom the father serves as "confirmation" because
he reinforces him in his own sex, he is a "revelation" for the girl
embodying the ideal of the other sex. Their relationships, impressed by
seduction, are privileged and both know it unconsciously. The dads are melting
in front of their daughters, who make it good! But between the love sometimes
too fusional of today and that much more distant of formerly, it is not always
easy to find the right measure in this history which begins nine months before
the birth.
Father
and daughter relationship: an evolving parentage
As
soon as the pregnancy is confirmed, the man can dream in turn father of a girl
... or a boy. When ultrasound lifts the veil, the waiting is not the same
anymore, and everyone, in a different way, will project on this little being
into becoming what he is, his ambitions, his desires and sometimes his worries.
is in a patriarchal culture - where inheritance and transmission are
traditionally father to son - he will probably be disappointed to have a baby
girl. If her disappointment persists, the girl risks, later, to feel devalued
to belong to the female sex. Fortunately, times have changed and most men are
no longer "outraged" at having a girl because they too are educated
(it's rewarding) and they do valuable jobs like boys! Especially since,
regardless of the sex of the child, the experience of fatherhood is perceived
at the beginning of this century more and more positively.
The
father's reaction is also a function of his personal history. Some will try to
find with their daughter the fusion that they lived with their own mother,
others on the contrary will ask him to give him the love they did not receive.
It is important for man to sort out his past and what he is experiencing in the
present. Other situations, many are happy to have a daughter for the reason
that it will not revive their relationship with their own father. To have a son
is, for a man, to be (or conversely not to be at all) the father he had during
his childhood. With a girl, he can invent something new, the weight of the past
is less heavy.
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