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How to be a good father
It must be recognized, it is not easy to
be a good father. But there are some very useful basic principles. Many fathers
realized that following the practical advice of the Bible was of great benefit
to them and their families. Let's take a look at some of these tips.
1. Make time for your family
As a father, how do you show your
children that they are valuable to you? You probably do a lot of work for them,
for example to feed them and provide them with a roof. You would not do as much
if they did not count for you! That said, if you do not spend enough time with
them, they might think that your work, your friends or your hobbies are more
important than them.
So, when should you spend time with your
children? A mother creates a relationship with her child while he is still in
his womb. It seems that a fetus starts to hear 16 weeks after conception. From
this point on, you too can build relationships with the baby. Listen to his
heart beat, feel his little kicks, talk to him, sing songs ...
Biblical principle: "These words
that I command you today must be on your heart; you must teach them to your son
and speak of them when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road,
when you lie down and when you get up "(Deuteronomy 6: 6, 7). This law of
God, given in Israel's time, encouraged fathers to regularly spend time with
their children and to become personally involved in their education.
2. Learn to communicate well
Listen to your child calmly, without
moralizing.
In order to communicate effectively with
your child, you must listen carefully. You must also learn to control your
emotions.
If your child knows you are going to take
you away and lecture him, he will not really want to confide in you. On the
other hand, by listening to him calmly, you show him that you are sincerely
interested in him. He will be more inclined to express what he thinks and
feels.
Biblical Principle: The practical advice
found in the Bible is useful in many areas of life. For example, we read:
"Every man must be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger"
(James 1:19). Fathers who apply this principle communicate more effectively
with their children.
3. Discipline with love and
congratulate
Even when you are disappointed or angry,
the remarks you make to your child should show that you truly care about your
long-term well-being. Discipline means to train, advise, reprimand and punish
when necessary.
Note that a child more easily accepts
discipline if his father is accustomed to congratulate him. In addition, the
congratulations help him to acquire a beautiful personality. He blossoms when
he has the feeling of having a place in the family and being appreciated. An
ancient proverb states: "Like gold apples in silver carvings, so is a word
spoken in its time" (Proverbs 25:11). A father who seizes opportunities to
congratulate his child helps him gain confidence and persevere in his efforts
to do good.
Biblical principle: "Fathers, do not
exasperate your children, so that they do not become discouraged"
(Colossians 3:21).
4. Love and respect your wife
The way a husband behaves with his wife *
will inevitably affect their children. Child development experts say, "One
of the best things a father can do for his children is to respect their mother.
[...] Parents who respect each other and who show it to their children offer
them a safe environment "(The role of the father in the development of the
child [English]).
Biblical Principle: "Husbands, continue
to love your wives, ... that each of you, for his part, so loves his wife as
himself" (Ephesians 5:25, 33).
5. Develop God's love for you and
your children
A father who loves God from the bottom of
his heart will bequeath to his child a most precious inheritance: the
possibility of forming a relationship of friendship with his heavenly Father.
Antonio, Jehovah's Witness, is the father
of six children. After decades of investing in their education, he received
this little note from one of his daughters: "Dear Dad, I would like to
thank you for teaching me to love Jehovah God and my neighbor, and to mate to
love myself; in short, to be a balanced person. You showed me that you love
Jehovah and that you care about me personally. Thank you, dad, for putting
Jehovah in the first place in your life and treating your children as gifts
from God! "
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