تحدث عن father
تعبير عن الاب
بالانجليزي
مقدمه عن الاب
تعبير عن الاب بالانجليزي بسيط
موضوع تعبير عن الاب المثالي
تعبير عن الاب قصيره جدا بالانجليزي
وصف الاب وصفا معنويا
انشاء عن الاب والام
تعبير عن عمل الاب بالانجليزي
Father-daughter:
the first look of a man
One
is afraid of men, the other dances to awaken their desire, a third is content
to be the woman of the shadow ... Each, on the couch, back on his first love to
enlighten the following. Behind the lover, look for the father. In Père-fille
(Albin Michel), through analytical narratives, the psychoanalyst Didier Lauru
explores the father-daughter relationship and the way, always complex and
singular, which influences the choices of the young woman who has become an
adult. Interview.
Laurence
Lemoine
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Has
the father-daughter relationship changed a lot?
Didier
Lauru: The social reality has evolved considerably. Fathers no longer have the
same power, they share parental authority with the mother, who can now pass on
her name, and are more present with children. But in fantasy, he remains the
main support of authority. The big voice, the forbidden, it's him.
And
the young women I receive have the idea that they need their approval to
validate their choices, especially in love. If they do not need a formal authorization,
they do not want to displease him.
In
your book, Father-Daughter, you explore the connection between the father's
gaze on his daughter and the fulfillment of the latter.
Didier
Lauru: I was indeed struck by the insistence with which women, on the couch,
evoke the look of their father, in the true sense of the word. As if this look,
alternately tinged with love or disappointment, admiration or reprobation, was
a kind of barometer of their relationship. As if there was also a link between
the quality of this look and the difficulties they encountered in their love
life or their sexuality. What I wanted to show in this book, through various
accounts of analysis, is how the father, in the manner of a sculptor in front
of a block of stone, anticipated the woman in the making in the little girl and
the child. helped to happen. Her look, more or less rewarding, is what will
allow her to fulfill her femininity or, on the contrary, will prevent it.
Does
not the mother have at least equal responsibility in this area?
Didier
Lauru: It is she who, in the beginning, gives the little girl the security base
she needs to grow, she who will teach him to be a woman to a man. But the
father will be the ideal man of his imagination, the one whose look she will
seek in her future loves, this first look of a man resting on her. Whether his
partner looks like Dad or if he is exactly the opposite, he is the one who will
have been the reference.
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